The words “abandonment” and “desertion” have negative connotations. In the context of marriage and divorce, they can sound like dramatic words that belong in a Victorian novel. In fact, desertion, abandonment, or “refusal to cohabit” were once used as a fault constituting grounds for divorce. With the advent of no-fault divorce, however, New Hampshire has eliminated abandonment as a fault ground in divorce.
Abandonment refers to any situation where one spouse has moved out. It may not be a permanent decision, and it may be a wise solution to a situation of distress and danger in the family home. Some spouses may want to leave a marriage that is breaking down, but may be concerned, thinking that moving out of the shared home constitutes abandonment or desertion that will serve them badly in the following divorce. That won’t happen these days. In New Hampshire, 90 percent of divorces are “no-fault,” which means that one spouse or both are citing “irreconcilable differences leading to an irremediable breakdown of the marriage” as the reason for divorcing.
In some cases, such as adultery, some spouses may seek a fault divorce on the grounds of desertion as “a moral vindication because they can say, ‘He or she left, he or she does not pay, and I didn’t do anything wrong to make it happen.’” In New Hampshire today, the abandonment has to continue for two years or longer, and requires the willful desire or the intent to desert and the cutting off of the marital relationship. Simply moving out of a marital home for a while, particularly to a nearby location, does not constitute a fault ground of abandonment. In some cases, a person may be advised to pursue leave the home when the safety of the spouse or children is in question due to the misconduct of the other spouse; this is called “constructive desertion.”
The 10 percent who choose to divorce on a fault ground usually seek an unequal division of marital property, where the “innocent” party may be entitled to a larger share. Proving fault in New Hampshire and generally can be costly, and may require hiring investigators and others, and going to trial, warns divorcenet.com.
The seasoned family law and divorce lawyers at the McGrath Law Firm, founded by attorney Peter McGrath, will walk you through every step of the challenging divorce process to address your concerns and achieve your goals as efficiently as possible. From spousal support, child support, fault, and equitable division of property and debt to valuations, pre-nuptial agreements, and restraining orders, the experienced attorneys at McGrath Law Firm have a successful track record in all aspects of divorce law. Call us to schedule your consultation at (800) 283-1380.